Do you have a goal that’s been lingering on your to-do list for what feels like forever? You’re not alone. Many women, whether juggling careers, motherhood, ministry, or personal aspirations, often find themselves stuck. But here’s the good news: with faith and intentional steps, you can finally break free from the rut and move forward with purpose. Let’s explore three simple strategies to “unstuck” your goals, all grounded in biblical wisdom and practical action.
1. Start with Prayer and Reflection
The first step to moving forward is to seek God’s guidance. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Take time to pray over your goal. Ask yourself:
- Is this goal aligned with God’s purpose for my life?
- Am I pursuing this goal for His glory or my own?
Spend a few quiet moments journaling your thoughts and scriptures that resonate with your journey. This reflection can reveal whether your goal needs a new perspective or simply a renewed commitment.
Practical Tip: Start your day with a “Goals and Gratitude” prayer. Thank God for the opportunities ahead and ask for His wisdom to prioritize your steps.
2. Break It Down into Manageable Steps
One reason goals can feel overwhelming is that we look at the big picture without breaking it into smaller, actionable steps. Romans 12:11 encourages us to, “Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervour, serving the Lord.” Approaching your goal with fervour doesn’t mean tackling everything at once. Instead, create a roadmap with bite-sized milestones.
How to Do This:
- Write down your ultimate goal.
- Divide it into smaller tasks or stages. For example, if your goal is to write a book, your smaller tasks might include outlining chapters, setting daily word count targets, or dedicating specific times for research.
- Set deadlines for each stage to keep yourself accountable.
Faith-Inspired Motivation: Post your roadmap somewhere visible and include an encouraging scripture or quote. For example: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13).
3. Find Accountability and Community
God designed us for connection. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, “Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labour: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.” Finding a friend, mentor, or group to share your goals with can make all the difference. When someone else is cheering you on, it’s easier to stay motivated and committed.
Steps to Build Accountability:
- Share your goal with a trusted friend or join a small group in your church.
- Schedule regular check-ins to discuss progress and challenges.
- Celebrate wins together, no matter how small.
Christian Connection: Consider starting a “Goal Accountability Group” within your women’s ministry. Not only will this create a supportive environment, but it will also allow everyone to grow spiritually as they pursue their dreams.
A Word of Encouragement
As you take these steps, remember that God’s timing is perfect. Isaiah 40:31 reminds us, “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” Progress may be slow, but with faith, perseverance, and intentionality, you’ll achieve more than you ever imagined.
So, sister, let’s get unstuck together. Choose one of these strategies today and watch how God moves in your life. Share your journey with us in the comments below—we’re here to cheer you on!\
Here are some awesome books that can help you reach your goals. These books are good resources for Christian women with big goals.
Design Your Day: Be More Productive, Set Better Goals, and Live Life On Purpose
Authored by Claire Diaz-Ortiz, this book introduces the DO LESS method, a structured approach to goal setting and productivity. Diaz-Ortiz, a former Twitter employee and Silicon Valley innovator combines her professional experience with faith-based principles to help women identify and achieve their most important goals. The book emphasizes aligning daily activities with one’s purpose, making it a valuable resource for Christian women seeking to live intentionally.
Get it here: https://amzn.to/3BSzDYL
The Circle Maker: Praying Circles Around Your Biggest Dreams and Greatest Fears
Written by Mark Batterson, this book encourages readers to dream big and pray boldly. Batterson shares inspiring stories and biblical insights to motivate women to set God-sized goals and pursue them with persistent prayer. The book provides practical steps for discerning and pursuing God-ordained goals, making it a powerful tool for those looking to integrate faith deeply into their goal-setting process.
Get it here: https://amzn.to/4a5riO3
